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"...breaking the ground with just a dreamboat. Sailing in my head and swimming through my secret oceans of coral blue and red. The smell is incense burning. The touch is silken, yet to be felt..." ~Persona Non Grata said, while looking forward through the lifespan.~


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Wednesday, June 01, 2005

Barbie doll for Nick?!

We've learnt from theories that it is perfectly fine for boys to play with dolls, cooking set or even dressing up like a girl in a dramatic play.

We've yet to hear from a mother point of view. I am sure majority would go with a shrieking NO, some would monitor the progression and few will make their boy's fantasy into reality.

About 3 Christmas's ago, my lecturer's son, Nick who was 10 then, wanted a Barbie doll for his Christmas pressie. BIG Shocked for poor Mama...

Nick: I want a Barbie doll for Christmas

Mummy: *Gasp* Are you gay?

Nick: No. I just want to play with it, for a change.

Mummy: *Heart sank* I'll think about it.

Academically and logically that wish is NORMAL. But for my lecturer's case, being a mother, she really could'nt accept it at first. It was one of the biggest problem she ever had.

At work...,

Lecturer 1 [mummy]: I think my son is having some kind of change. I was shocked when he asked for Barbie doll for christmas. I really don't know what to do.

Lecturer 2: Keep calm first. I really have no idea of what to say...hmmm

Lecturer 1: I am very worried... bla bla bla...

Lecturer 2: ...***giving empathy***...

Yeah you know how it is...so that was just a mother reaction, worried sick-norm!


Finally, decision made. Barbie doll bought. Outside the box she wrote, To: 'Mummy' instead of 'Nick'. The reason is, she wants to "monitor his progress" after getting the doll. So mummy went to work the next day telling Lecturer 2 about her idea.

Lecturer 1: So, what you think?

Lecturer 2: Yeah thats a great idea...Ok go!

So, Christmas came and went. She unwrapped the pressie and...

Mummy: *smiling* Alrite, this is MY Barbie doll. As and when you want to play with this, u may do so BUT with MY permission.

Nick: Ok. Thank You...bla bla bla

Mummy: But may I know why you want this for Christmas?

And Nick told his Mum why he wanted to play with the doll...

Mummy: ??? *relieves & glad*

At work...,

Lecturer 2: So how's Nick progressing??

Lecturer 1: Ohoho... Yeah... He actually needs it for his toy soldier. He finds that those guys need more friends because they are lonely most of the time. So Nick was trying to put in more people to join them!

Lecturer 2: LOL! Glad to hear that.

Lecturer 1: Yeah, no worries... My son's straight!

*** Don't take things too hard, laugh it out.


Source: The echo of Shaidah Nafisah was heard at 12:16 AM, through the circulation of the breeze, however, part of it has to be deep freeze. ~Reports from Ministry Of Seamplicity.

 

"The Simplified Life-Chapter III: Persona Non Grata"